Why do lesbian women generally have a better impression of older people? There are mainly the following reasons:
Pursuing a sense of security: In the emotional world, a sense of security is crucial for many people, and some lesbian couples are even more so. They particularly hope to have a stable and mature partner to rely on in their lives. Older people have experienced many things and are more calm when facing problems. They can analyze the situation rationally and find solutions. For example, when facing difficult problems at work or conflicts with friends, an older partner is like a reliable strategist who can provide useful advice based on their own experience, making the other person feel particularly at ease. This stable support can make young Lala feel full of security in their relationships and no longer afraid to face difficulties in life.
Longing for growth and learning: Older people have accumulated rich life experience, whether it is small tips in life, tricks in the workplace, or social skills, they can provide young Lala with many opportunities for learning and growth. Taking job hunting as an example, older partners can help analyze the advantages and disadvantages of different jobs based on their own experience in the workplace, guide them in creating resumes and preparing for interviews, and help them avoid detours in the job search process. In daily life, one can also teach others some life skills, such as how to repair furniture, how to manage finances reasonably, etc., to help them better adapt to life.
Pursuing emotional resonance: Mature people often express their emotions more delicately and are more tolerant, able to understand and accept their partners' emotions well. When young Lala is in a bad mood due to the troubles in life, such as being criticized by her leaders or not doing well in exams, her older partner will not treat her perfunctorily, but will patiently listen and empathize with her sadness. They know when to give each other a hug and when to say comforting words, making the young Lala feel deeply understood and loved. This deep emotional resonance can make the relationship between two people better and closer.
However, don't assume that all lesbian women prefer older partners. In fact, lesbian love preferences are diverse, and everyone's choices are different. Some people think that being with peers has more common topics and can do many interesting things together; Some people prefer smaller ones and enjoy the feeling of taking care of others. Everyone's preference for a romantic partner is determined by a combination of factors such as their personality, upbringing, and values, and cannot be generalized.
