Pseudo-homosexuality refers to the phenomenon of temporary same-sex attraction shown by an individual at a specific stage of development or within a certain environmental context. Essentially, it is a behavioral manifestation influenced by psychosocial factors, rather than a stable sexual orientation identity. This is fundamentally different from true homosexuality, which has a biological basis. True homosexuality is an innate and stable pattern of sexual orientation within an individual.

According to research in developmental psychology, the causes of pseudo-homosexuality can be mainly summarized into the following three categories:

1. Deviation in the socialization of gender roles (the critical period from 6 to 12 years old)
   Typical manifestations: Boys are given intensified feminine upbringing (such as wearing women's clothes for a long time and being restricted from masculine games); girls are forced into masculine cultivation (such as systematically suppressing the expression of feminine traits).
   Psychological mechanism: Unconventional gender role training may lead to blurred gender identity, and in adolescence, it is manifested as excessive emotional dependence on individuals of the same gender.
   Key distinction: This kind of behavior is mostly the result of social learning, rather than an essential sexual orientation.

2. Compensatory behavior after setbacks in heterosexual relationships
   Developmental trajectory: Repeated failures in heterosexual relationships → the generation of self-denial cognition → turning to the same sex to seek emotional security.
   Characteristics: It is often accompanied by the defensive psychology of "at least the same sex won't reject me", and in essence, it is an avoidance of heterosexual intimate relationships.
   Identification key point: When the individual rebuilds self-confidence, this tendency of same-sex attraction usually fades away naturally.

3. Exploratory behavior induced by the environment
   Social influencing factors: The distribution of sexual orientations within the peer group; the specific presentation of same-sex relationships in the media.
   Behavioral characteristics: It is mostly manifested as transient and situational same-sex intimate contact, often with a herd mentality or a curiosity-seeking nature.
   Development pattern: This kind of behavior usually gradually fades as the individual's cognitive maturity progresses.

Understanding and Acceptance: A Positive Perspective on the Exploration of Sexual Orientation
Whether you are currently confused about your own sexual orientation or are going through a stage of exploration, please remember:
Self-exploration is an inevitable path of growth. The understanding of sexual orientation often takes time, and there is no need to rush to label yourself. Many people do not form a clear self-identity until after the age of 20.
Every feeling deserves to be respected. Whether it is a temporary pseudo-attraction or a stable same-sex orientation, your emotional experience is real and meaningful.
Seeking support is a sign of bravery. If you feel confused, a counselor or trusted relatives and friends can all provide help. You are not alone!
Diversity makes the world richer. Sexual orientation is like a spectrum, and everyone can find their own place in it. What is important is to live as your true self, rather than conforming to the expectations of others.

Finally, please be patient and kind to yourself. Your value never depends on whom you love, but on how sincerely you treat yourself and the world.