Whenever someone asks, "Can there be a future for two girls being together?" I always want to say that the future of love is never determined by gender, but is written by two truly loving hearts.
The Essence of Love Has Nothing to Do with Gender
Heterosexual couples can grow old together not because of the "combination of a man and a woman," but because of mutual tolerance and joint growth. The same goes for same-sex love. What determines the duration of a relationship is always its quality, not the form of the combination.
The Three Cornerstones of a Lasting Relationship
The Determination for Joint Growth: Willing to adjust one's own habits for the other person and put "us" before "me".
The Courage to Face Reality: Plan practical issues such as finances and retirement together, and turn external pressure into the motivation to fight together.
The Ability to Maintain Warmth: Create a sense of ritual in the daily trivialities of life, and jointly learn new skills every year to maintain a sense of freshness.
Warm Suggestions for Same-Sex Couples
Build an "Emotional Safety Net": Find a circle of relatives and friends who support you.
Plan for Security in Advance: Understand legal channels such as intended guardianship.
Create Common Goals: For example, make plans to buy a house together, start a business, or create a travel list.
True love is the orbit where two planets attract each other, rather than a template prescribed by society. Those who say that "there is no future for same-sex relationships" often haven't managed any relationship well themselves. The future is never given; it is built by two people in love with their own hands.
So, my dear, when you hold hands tightly, please believe that love has no distinction of gender, only the distinction between authenticity and falsity. Your future is defined by you.