No matter how deep your love is, always remind yourself: she is not perfect and will never fully match your idealized image.
Avoid excessively mentioning ex-partners in front of your significant other. Even if they claim not to care, they likely do—unless they genuinely have no feelings for you.
Never use the threat of "breaking up" as leverage. What you see as a warning is actually a severe blow to your bond.
No one is flawless—neither you nor your partner. Stop imposing unrealistic standards on each other.
Once committed, maintain appropriate boundaries with others to give your partner a sense of security.
Communicate openly about issues immediately. Silence and avoidance only breed resentment.
Voice your emotions clearly. Don’t rely on vague "telepathy"—guessing games harm trust over time.
Unresolved problems fester. Address conflicts head-on through dialogue before they escalate.
Cold wars are immature and destructive. Healthy relationships thrive on mature communication.
Romantic fantasies are fine, but don’t force your partner to act out your idealized script.
Avoid borrowing or lending money unless you’re prepared to lose it. Financial entanglements strain relationships.
Whether the money is repaid or not, it will inevitably impact your connection.
If you’re upset, say so. Don’t blame your partner for failing to read your mind.
Never argue in public or abandon your partner mid-conflict. Handle disagreements privately and respectfully.
Love requires mutual effort. One-sided sacrifices lead to imbalance.
Remember: You’re a partner, not a parent. Maintain healthy boundaries in your role.
If you can’t connect through conversation or shared meals, reconsider compatibility.
Endless, unrewarded giving leads to burnout. Reciprocity is key.
Constantly criticizing flaws—even minor ones—erodes self-esteem and intimacy.
Don’t obsess over your partner’s past relationships. The details will only hurt you.
Relationships are a duet, not a solo act. Ensure both voices are heard.
Let go of their ex. Dwelling on the past poisons the present.
Cut ties with exes after committing to your partner. Respect their need for exclusivity.
No flirting with others once you’re in a relationship—it’s disrespectful.
A partner isn’t a meal ticket or unpaid servant. Equality matters.
Love deeply but retain individuality. Space nurtures growth.
Practice empathy: Don’t impose what you dislike onto others.
Never demand what you yourself can’t deliver. Lead by example.
Self-love comes first. You can’t pour from an empty cup.
Testing your partner’s love through games breeds disappointment. Trust or walk away.
Set clear boundaries early. Compromising core values harms both.
Weather highs and lows together before planning forever.
Some mysteries are best left unsolved. Not every detail needs dissection.
Communication over silence. Problems won’t vanish if ignored.
Appreciate gestures of love. Taking kindness for granted kills passion.
Avoid partners lacking ambition. Poverty of spirit is deadlier than empty pockets.
Leave relationships that diminish your self-worth. Cutting losses early is wisdom.
Playful teasing? Cute. Constant drama? Exhausting. Don’t weaponize affection.
Decline overly extravagant gifts unless the relationship is serious.
Gift-giving shouldn’t come with strings. Expecting repayment ruins the gesture.
Compliment sincerely. Encouragement fosters growth.
Heed wise parental advice but maintain autonomy. Don’t lose yourself.
Clinginess suffocates. Space allows love to breathe.
Inform your partner about plans to prevent worry or misunderstandings.
“For your own good” actions often backfire. Respect their autonomy.
Public arguments humiliate. Always protect each other’s dignity in social settings.
Never make emotional decisions at night—especially about relationships. Morning clarity brings regrets.
