1. You will meet many people you like in your life. You may mistake that for love, but it's just a momentary crush. After all, being moved is not the answer—being determined is.
2. We should gain strength and joy from love, rather than spending all our strength and joy on loving.
3. There's no need to be clingy every day, but stay connected at any time. I know you won't leave, and you know I won't change. We are busy with our own lives but care for each other. When getting along, let go of defenses; when chatting, be unrestrained. I won't love you casually—I will be serious and grand.
4. You shouldn't fall in love because you want to, but because of someone.
5. When love is absent, learn to live a good life on your own.
6. If you want to be in a relationship, follow human nature. Point out problems to each other instead of letting the other party guess too much. This way, your love can flow. If you let the other party guess your emotions, over time, it will only bring more fatigue to both of you.
7. Single-mindedness is probably the most gentle power in the world.
8. Details touch people more than love words.
9. In fact, love is simple: reply to every message carefully, and no matter how long you've been together, be willing to talk patiently.
10. You are not my choice after weighing the pros and cons, but my firmness after being moved, knowing it's impossible yet doing it anyway. This is my greatest sincerity towards this relationship.
11. Love purely, date properly, and break up clearly.
12. Liking is mutual. No one will like you for no reason—live up to their liking.
13. You can dislike, but please don't hurt.
14. If you don't like someone, refuse them in time; don't drag them along.
15. When two people are together, don't always talk about being worthy or not. A one-yuan lighter can still light a ten-thousand-yuan cigarette, and tens of thousands of yuan worth of food can't do without a two-yuan pack of salt.
16. I once read a passage: I used to think that getting tired of each other meant the end. But until recently, I realized that when you feel love starting to fade, the real love begins to emerge. Of course, you can choose to give up and look for a new love, but the price is that you'll never escape the endless cycle of freshness.
17. Novelty means experiencing new things with old people, not experiencing old things with new people.
18. Being caught up in ambiguity is not love. Never start a relationship confusedly just because of ambiguous feelings— it won't end well.
19. Why do ordinary-looking people find gentle and beautiful partners? Because you only see their ordinary appearance.
20. I'm prepared to spend a lifetime with you, and also prepared to leave at any time. This is probably the best love view: deep affection without entanglement.
21. Bringing up old scores again is because they were never properly resolved.
22. Love yourself before loving others. Love is a two-way journey, not a one-sided wish, no matter how much you like the other person.
23. Even if a bus is empty, the driver will still drive to the terminal. This means: don't stop your life because someone leaves.
24. In love, "licking dogs" don't end well. Never be a "licking dog".
25. Regarding love, commit to each other, sacrifice for each other, respect each other, and achieve each other.
26. Have space for each other, have meals together from time to time, have friends and social circles, give each other trust. You don't need to contact each other all the time, but when I look for you, you must be there.
27. I'm lucky not because I met you in my most beautiful days, but because meeting you is the most beautiful time in my life.
28. Compared to bravery, caution is the greatest respect for love. Learn to distinguish whether you lack love or have met the person you want to be with.
29. Good love allows you to see the whole world through one person, while bad love makes you give up the world for one person. However, most people's love views are too distorted now.
30. Liking alone is really useless—no matter how much you like, it's useless. Mutual liking is what matters.
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